Entries by New Hope Counseling

Small Daily Habits That Support Your Mental Health

Small Daily Habits That Support Your Mental Health When people think about improving their mental health, they often imagine big, life-changing transformations—starting therapy, switching careers, or finally taking that long-overdue break. While these larger steps matter, the truth is that mental health is shaped most deeply by the small, consistent habits you practice every day. […]

Coping with Holiday Stress: Finding Calm in Chaos

Coping with Holiday Stress: Finding Calm in Chaos As the holiday season approaches, the world around us begins to hum with energy — bright lights, festive music, endless lists, and social plans that stretch from morning coffee to late-night wrapping sessions. For many, this time of year brings joy, connection, and tradition. But for just […]

Simple Grounding Techniques That Actually Work

Simple Grounding Techniques That Actually Work When anxiety, stress, or intrusive thoughts start to spiral, grounding techniques can bring you back to the present moment. The idea sounds simple — “just stay present” — but in practice, it can feel impossible when your mind is racing or your body is flooded with adrenaline. Grounding isn’t […]

Why People-Pleasing Isn’t Kindness

Why People-Pleasing Isn’t Kindness Many of us are praised from a young age for being “so nice,” “so helpful,” or “so easy to get along with.” We learn that being agreeable earns affection and keeps the peace. Over time, this conditioning can turn into something deeper and more costly: people-pleasing. People-pleasing looks like kindness on […]

Understanding Attachment Styles in Adult Relationships

Understanding Attachment Styles in Adult Relationships Our early experiences shape the way we connect with others—often in ways we don’t fully realize. The theory of attachment styles helps explain why we might feel anxious in relationships, pull away when things get too close, or find it easy to build trust and intimacy. Understanding your attachment […]

Memory Reconsolidation: Changing the Emotional Past

Memory Reconsolidation: Changing the Emotional Past When most people think about memory, they imagine something fixed—like a photograph stored away in the brain. Once something happens, we assume it’s preserved just as it occurred. But neuroscience has revealed something far more fascinating: memory is not static. It is malleable, dynamic, and capable of change. This […]